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HOW TO GIVE A GREAT HAND JOB

Are you ready to hone your hand job skills? This move may have been in your repertoire for some time, but even so, there’s always time to learn some new moves. This is your handy guide to hand jobs, your manual handling 101 and your reason to get a (new) grip.

How to Give a Good Hand Job: 11 Top Tips Lube It - If you love it, lube it. Keeping it wet and wild with a lubricant or oil is the sure fire way to make your hand job memorable. A well lubricated hand job allows you to apply more pressure, glide over the head, shaft and balls with ease and stimulate even more nerve endings. With lube we always say more is more, and that’s never more true than with hand jobs! Use It - You’ve lubed it, so use it. Every inch of the penis is an opportunity for pleasure, although the head is a hot spot of nerves and a guaranteed way to get him off. The frenulum and scrotum are both areas that need some extra attention. With your hand wrapped around his shaft, stroke the frenulum (the string of skin which joins the head to the shaft) with the pad of your thumb while working in up and down motions. The balls are often neglected, but gentle cupping, stroking and sucking will have him moaning in no time. If he’s up for it, playing with the perineum (the area of skin between the balls and anus) will also drive him wild. Just apply steady pressure and massage the area with a finger as you stroke his shaft to take your partner over the edge.

Less Pump - Continually pumping up and down isn’t necessarily the recipe for an award winning hand job. To perform the best hand jobs, you should twist, twizzle and massage. Shake things up and beat the arm ache. Hand jobs shouldn’t be a straight up and down shuffle – mixing up your movements whilst keeping a rhythm will keep things interesting and treat him to a variety of amazing different sensations. More Pressure - When it comes to giving hand jobs, a good grip around his penis is definitely appreciated. Shake things up by varying your grip, going from soft to hard as you travel up the shaft then giving a mind-blowing squeeze when you reach the super sensitive head. Do The Twist - This technique will give him an orgasm to remember. To master it, you need to stroke up and down in a twisting motion. Start with your hand wrapped around his shaft at the base, with your thumb pointing down. Imagine a ‘thumbs down’ motion, and you’ve got it! Then, stroke up and over the top of the penis, applying extra pressure with your hand as you reach the sensitive head. As you reach the head, rotate your hand so your thumb is facing upwards as you stroke down again. Repeat this motion, switching hands as you go. He’ll thank you – we promise!

Take Your Time and Enjoy It - Hand jobs sometimes get a bad rep, mostly because they’re viewed simply as something to help you along to sex. However, done right, a hand job can lead to a truly mind-blowing orgasm for him. Rather than rushing through it, treat a hand job as the main event – after all, if you’re taking your time and enjoying it, he’s more likely to enjoy it too. And, once you’ve given him the time of his life, he can then return the favour. Win-win! Pick a Position - Hand jobs offer a wealth of options when it comes to positions. Keeping things fresh sometimes involves looking at things from a new perspective… literally. Offer a cheeky reach around next time they’re waiting for the kettle to boil, practice your ‘rusty trombone’ (rimming whilst giving a hand job) or simply adjust the angle of his penis to bend down, ever so slightly, while you practice your new technique. Get him to tell you what he likes as you do it – the power is in your hands. Play With Toys - Vibrators aren’t just for us ladies. Introducing a toy into the mix can take things to new heights during a hand job. Try teasing him with a bullet vibrator across his balls or up his shaft – the vibrations alongside your stroking will seriously blow his mind! To bring an extra kinky element into your play, introduce a realistic textured stroker. Or, to keep him harder for longer and really make the most out of your new hand job techniques, slip on a cock ring. Good vibes all round!

Get Your Mouth Involved - An instant way to up the ante when giving a hand job is to involve your mouth, so try licking and sucking the head of his penis as you stroke. The extra lubrication and range of different sensations will send him over the edge in no time. Get Vocal - As with all sex, communication is key to you both having a fantastic time. Keep an eye on your partner to gauge what they like from their reactions. Better yet, introduce some kinky talk; ask them if they like what you’re doing, if they want more, or ask what they want you to do. Playing around with a little dirty talk will help set the scene, ensure both of you are turned on, and make everything you’re doing feel so much better. Preparation is a Must - Ultimately, the goal of a hand job is to make your partner ejaculate (unless this is strictly foreplay, in which case, keep control of your speed). Be ready to deal with what is going to ensue and decide exactly where you want this to end up. Whether it’s your mouth, boobs or on his belly, bear in mind where he’s going to finish to avoid any last minute panic when he’s ready to blow. If you’re unsure where he wants to finish, just ask him, or suggest a place yourself – vocalising it will just turn the two of you on even more.

The best hand jobs are when you’re both relaxed and enjoying yourself, so just communicate, find out what he likes, be enthusiastic and have fun. Along with these top hand job tips, just seeing how much you’re loving getting him off will truly drive him wild.

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